Heroes and Horrors

You probably already heard already about Wesley Autrey, the Subway Superhero who saved someone having a seizure on the tracks of the 1 train.

NYT asks if you would have the courage to do it?

He was on David Letterman last night. There were two factors that were to his advantage – that he was a Navy veteran, which provided courage, and that he is a construction worker who is accustomed to working in confined spaces, which enabled him to estimate that he and the ill person would fit under the train. The two other reasons why he did it was that he didn’t want his two daughters to see someone being killed.

The 2 seconds getting run over by 5 subway cars was actually the relatively safe part – the dangerous part was when he had to restrain the other guy for 20 minutes while under the train until they could cut the power. Real heroes are the ones that never ever think that they would. His advice: if you have the chance to be a hero, go for it.

A 15 year old graffiti artist was not as lucky, getting run over by an LIRR train this evening. Two other members of his crew were at the scene. Unfortunately, there were no heroes there.

Why Water, or YMCA

Welcome to my New Year’s message for 2007. You’re reading this because you played an important part of my life this past year. As is traditional, I give you a few stats and then a little something about what happened in the past year.

Stats for the year:
Miles on a plane: 23,248 (down 17% from last year)
Miles in a Hertz rental car: 1,724
Miles on a Chinatown intercity bus: 621
Miles in a Zipcar: about 4,800
MB of email: 1,044 (up 40% from last year)

Top search words on triscribe.com:
– Inner Universe (have no idea what they were searching for)
– Keira Knightly (from the Pirates of the Caribbean)
– Grassland Bus (bus line between Singapore and Malaysia)
– Alton Brown (host of Good Eats and Iron Chef America)
– caltalpa (the type of tree that was in front of the house I grew up in)
– Dennis Farina (took over for the late Jerry Orbach on Law & Order)
– roast beef (I had a roast beef recipe)
– Incheon (airport in Korea)
– TVB (Hong Kong television)
– kaoliang chiew (sorghum liquor – all of the sting of vodka, with twice the taste of turpentine — not pleasant stuff)
– Baishawan (ghost town in Taiwan)
– Colma the Musical (the rock musical film, based on a city of the dead, is still alive)

Why Water, or YMCA

There’s something about water. I like it a lot; I hate it a lot. I dislike getting wet in the rain, but I find warm sun showers irresistible. I prefer living near a large body of water, preferably on an island or peninsula (people forget that Brooklyn is on an island). On the other hand I won’t spend much time at the sea shore, and then maybe only knee deep. I like being on boats – never had a problem being seasick, no matter how rough the waves. But forget about white water rafting. I don’t swim, and I don’t know how; it’s almost as common as not having a driver’s license in New York.

Last year at this time Pei and I decided to visit Hong Kong. She had never been there before, and I always had good memories of the place, so we made plans to be there for the Dragon Boat Festival. I would take care of the air, and she the land. The water would have to take care of itself.

I would have been happy with the guest house in Kowloon that I was at the last time I was there in 2001. Well, obviously that wouldn’t do with the two of us. P-searched and discovered the best place to stay is not any of the name brand hotels, but the YMCA. While in most places the YMCA is associated with youth hostels, in Hong Kong they operate a three-star hotel with the same harbor side views of the Peninsula next door, for a quarter of the price. The hotel is operated as career training for its members.

The first night there I wanted to do something romantic, like walk along the Avenue of the Stars or go over the Star Ferry, both near the water. P- would have none of it – she was jetlagged and didn’t even want to go out to eat, not to mention go out anywhere else. So, I finally got her to a view overlooking Victoria Harbor – albeit from our hotel room – got down on my knees and proposed to her. That was the secret resolution that I made last year.

Oh yeah, she said yes. We’re aiming tentatively for October 11, 2008 (yes it’s a long engagement). Thanks to all of you that helped me out in keeping the secret from P– — she still can’t believe that everyone knew, including her best friends, random people at events we go to, and even a couple of Christmas parties.

As for a resolution for the coming year, we’re dumping our memberships at the sports club – we’re going to join the YMCA here and going to actually figure out how to swim. Have a happy and prosperous New Year, full of love and life.